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Verified humans
Every member passes photo + ID verification before they can apply to anyone. The blue check on a profile means a real person stood behind it.
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Safe by
design.
Intent-first dating is safer dating. Because nobody reaches you without applying — and nobody applies without being verified — the usual flood of spam, bots, and unwanted messages simply has nowhere to start. Here's how we keep it that way.
/ Four guarantees
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Privacy by default
Your profile is visible only to people in your preference pool. Turn on Private Mode to blur your photos until you accept an application.
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Consent-first contact
Nobody can message you out of the blue. People apply, you decide, and the conversation opens only when intent is mutual. You hold the gate.
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Real moderation
A human-backed trust team reviews every report. Block, mute, and report are one tap away — and we act on them, fast.
See something?
We act on it.
01
Report
Tap the menu on any profile, application, or message to flag it. Tell us what happened in your own words.
02
Review
Our trust team triages every report — most within hours. Verified evidence, not vibes, drives the decision.
03
Resolve
We warn, suspend, or permanently remove. You're told the outcome, and repeat offenders don't get a second pool.
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Date-smart checklist
- checkKeep first conversations on Apply — no rushing to other apps.
- checkMeet in public for the first few dates, and tell a friend your plan.
- checkNever send money, gift cards, or crypto to someone you haven't met.
- checkTrust your gut — if something feels off, block and report it.
- checkYour data is yours: export or delete it anytime from Account settings.
/ In immediate danger?
Contact local emergency services first.
Then report to our 24/7 trust team — we'll respond and preserve evidence.
/ Peace of mind